Also in this playlist...
This transcript is automatically generated
Julian Knoxville high Juli welcome to the Dave Ramsey show.
Hi Dave he the -- -- you -- what's up in your world and I don't look at every game.
My husband and I are.
Contract language you know -- hear -- cheer program he -- bits and pieces out of your beliefs and old.
As quiet as but not all of them that I guess it boils down hailed his ideas his -- his money but I guess my way in my money.
It probably thanks -- -- -- more than I do you.
He that position now where you feel that is best just to go ahead and bankrupt.
But it's his vehicle -- But how can back him.
-- ever would -- that thing you know it's got to build something here.
I think part of that is frustration because the perfect parents and -- -- -- providing -- I can't I'm not providing for them.
You know the kids though when you got married they -- So.
-- you know I just heard a whole bunch of marital issues -- and I actually.
You know apparently -- it get there -- underlying Meryl hobbled some money being Erica.
-- but I think that if we can ever come these big huge financial problems we will have a better chance of correctly the other issues.
It's the other way around.
When you correct those other issue shall overcome your financial trouble.
-- according Britain now and the reason is this you're not able to work together.
-- and are able to get the synergy in the power of pulling the wagon together.
And -- and and there's no energy because there's all this come tension.
That there's no victories ever.
Because they always are followed with resentment.
And all of that plays into how fast you get out of that getting out of debt is more than just mathematical -- spiritual emotional relational.
And when couples you hear when they call in on the show all the time when they join together in great levels of unity.
It and hit it in just pours gas on the fire and allows it to go yeah.
And they get out of it that much faster.
And so this idea that somehow he resents the fact he has to you know help his wife eat and her children -- which were part of the package when he signed up.
You know that's got to be dealt well.
The fact that we you know -- -- shoes of programming can't be on the same page together.
Has got to be dealt -- -- then and only then we can look at the numbers and has a couple can make the decision as to whether or bankrupt or not but.
I'm -- -- the bankruptcy attorneys office how -- -- into the financial counseling office I'm -- into the marriage counseling office.
And when you guys can be in agreement on what you're doing.
It as an unbelievable.
Power to your ability to clean up your mess and to survive the -- I honestly don't care when you keep your card your house for file bankruptcy have nuclear waste and married.
Cars and how -- you get more but but who and you know just staying married and existing in.
In marriage -- wages not a plan.
Ending their marriage needs to be prosper and so I really just -- my time in my energy on that part of this equation and let the financial stuff -- the second.
Part of -- coming.
Filter by section