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I got today's last two calls I'm just -- I told our producers of the break I -- talk about this.
Let me tell you the number one indicator.
To you being able to build wealth.
Is how functional person you are and what kind of character you half.
And the character of those people you interact with.
If you interact with crooks.
And irresponsible people.
-- they then you're never going to build wealth.
And if you've got crooks and irresponsible people in your family.
And you interact with them because of some kind of sick -- Bay Area -- misplaced loyalty.
Which most of us have to family members that are crazy.
-- then you get you get in that you really are gonna have a gravitational pull stupid -- you ended financial death at all times.
And let's just talk for second if your mommy and a daddy.
Using your child's name to open an account.
Is illegal you're a free can cram -- all.
I mean really.
And then forget to pay the bill and then forget to tell the kid until the kid gets -- -- I mean.
This is called financial child abuse.
How I'm going to bless my -- so I'm going to give them a car is a gift.
Then as more -- on it then it's worth and let's compound that by you can -- -- pay me 111000 dollars without -- -- -- by my bills with -- now you're really screwed.
Think what kind of parents are you people some little ball.
It's unbelievable it's financial child abuse of your grown children.
And if you are the victim of financial child abuse you'll have to learn to put up what are called -- boundaries.
She yields keep the morons that are in your family off of you.
Really serious least put.
But the problem is.
-- -- And view your stuff like growing up your whole life like we -- carrier friendly senator from Illinois -- -- -- bull.
Some of your family -- drug addicts.
-- family are criminals.
-- family's crazy.
And you don't need to take care of now.
That is not your job.
You are endorsing embracing an enabling their craziness -- drug addiction and their -- everything else when you start handing money to people who are misbehaving in your family you're not loving them.
You're participating in the dysfunction.
And you can't participate in the dysfunction as an act of love and and end up anything but stupid with them.
That's only -- only edit option you get these situations and that you have to sever ties yet the members becoming involved but yet -- put up a boundary that says I cannot.
You know I cannot engage with you to the extent you're -- -- engage in this stupid behavior like stealing money from -- -- accounts -- my -- And if you continue to do that crap I'm gonna have you put in jail how well you're -- quite at all.
And some of you this -- well as market and I got now and it's your kid you're supposed to blow -- not a -- -- -- kind of crazy people went to.
There's a bunch of you I'll always have a job that's -- -- going into that last break stupid people tricks now.
So there's two sides of this question we've got a panel -- this little ramp up just a little bit -- number one if you are the pride and our.
And -- -- both of these cases neither one of these predators were straight up con artists they're just totally -- and irresponsible.
Disorganized people who somehow had some of the broken in the brain.
The senate is okay to mess they're -- up because they're so screwed up.
Still put financial child abuse -- stopped it.
On the other side you're the one being abused where you have to lovingly firmly diplomatically say this is a boundary.
You cannot cross this boundary to the extent you cross that boundary more take you out.
And you've already crossed the -- so here are the rules never come close to that wall again.
Don't even go over there next to it because it -- take you out.
You will not have a good plan if you do this -- not have a good life if you do this to be people coming in knocking on your door that little shields and guns on his side.
Bracelets -- connect we're not gonna play.
So the book is called boundaries for those of you that are victims.
For those of you that are so irresponsible.
And stupid that you think it's okay to steal your identity of your child.
Or to steal money from your child because you can't pay your own freaking bills what you need the book is called counseling.
You need -- Counseling you're sick puppy for -- All right lots more --
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