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All right Teresa is with us to start us off -- in Cedar Rapids tied to -- real.
I do you how Ariel.
Better than -- deserve are you surviving after the flood -- That is that a lot of clean up my that the bill did you get hit.
Now but some close friends that.
Now let's talk and a friend of mine farming -- subject and I'll get to your question and he was filming of all that huge tens of thousands of acres of crops that were lost -- -- -- Alec unbelievable.
The pictures you know you can go online and see -- some things that.
The devastation was just unbelievable that they.
Well I saw that you know the people in all the stuff with the news reports -- the humans that we're touch.
But honestly hadn't thought about you know the price of corn may be up next year because there's no harvest out of your area.
Okay sorry for -- for the side chasing a rabbit they're gonna help you this evening.
I'd love your advice thought something could come.
-- -- -- -- on the edge every day because of that job -- and I feel like it Cilic being that his salary over his happiness Stanley and it helped the group.
And I -- a walking on eggshells around him and not convinced him.
That money's not everything but that bill.
And so he's on the edge you -- it's kind of like got a short -- to these tired.
I've been accused of that took effect at.
And well you know.
Some reading may be in the the -- is -- reader.
He does but -- he has -- your book.
I'll tell you one of things that when I catch myself doing that and I and I love what I do so our work really really hard.
And I run -- wild schedule when I catch myself doing that in my life you know the temperature data from this stuff starts.
Saying hey you're that you're getting over nearly jerk -- edge over there don't get over there.
Usually that's because I'm not feeding myself spiritually enough.
I gotten too busy I'm pretty good about getting up and running my 5 miles in the morning I'm pretty good about getting the work getting my work done.
I'm pretty good about even playing on the weekends and playing hard right now the lake house but I may not stop and take enough time to just.
-- Rather than do.
And you can just tell him I said from one do work to another do or take a little time to be.
And what I mean by that is just -- some -- -- prayer time get them you know -- Bob on the senate we laughed and you can fall asleep it's okay but just sit on the back -- or whatever and away from anybody else no TVs no emails and just just get him a little me time so to speak this little lady would call it guys don't do me time but -- Sounds a little wacky but you know you really that that's what I have to do it and -- and I'm just relating -- a guy on that.
If ultimately if his job is eating him alive.
If his wife is becoming if his life is becoming one dimensional.
Then he he will eventually lose everything that's dear to him if he doesn't adjust.
-- -- Yeah love that's how I kind of feel it because you know you -- the -- that 5 AM and doesn't get -- -- it thirtieth say.
You know the good news is -- it when when I don't like what's happening in my job by opponents like change it.
It could happen.
But yeah he may not have that as an option but he really needs to start reeling that back in.
Zig ziglar talks about the wheel of life having spokes.
And the -- are like our physical -- spiritual are relational our career our financial he's doing real good on the career and on the financial but he's got a flat tire.
On the other side.
That makes sense it and so you can do that for a little while these are these people who say your life is balanced all the time -- wrong.
There is some ebb and flow of life but you can't do it as an ongoing thing to the point that it -- damaging other areas.
And it is look at -- calling me.
So I -- let me send you a copy it and Miller's book it's called no more Monday's.
And it -- deals with some of the stuff he's a career coach.
And if your husband's a reader maybe he'll pick up them and read that evolution stuff on it's a great book.
Then I worry that he's a great for -- writer but I think more than -- thing.
But you know guys that that are our our our big get things done like this are hard to find so you've got a good one.
But I know he's the most I wouldn't -- little.
And I didn't I didn't hear you griping about him but I'm saying it does need the love of a good woman in this case.
That's the other countries so you know put a girl in it so I mean really happy I got out you don't you don't assault and he needs to -- news -- He listened to his wife in this case because she's -- she's outside of forest looking at the treason -- see them.
And you know those of us that have a good lady like Q in our lives have the benefit of that when we go to hearts out.
I think you're on the right track if it means a career change ultimately than I would recommend that you don't trade.
Ultimately trade your family for your work that's were alcoholism.
And you don't wanna go that far and he would never be he would never accuse himself of being a workaholic he's just a hard worker.
So -- -- -- a workaholic I think he's just a hard worker that's gotten too close to that edge maybe you can help -- back passenger copy of that.
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