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Let's go to Tammy in Augusta Maine I Tammy how are you tonight.
I'm fine thanks Dave how are you better than I deserve what's up in your world.
-- that you much.
Might have been higher seem to be struggling a lot on -- on the same page.
We did the FPU 34 years ago at our church.
And the first Q3 months we -- on fire paid off.
-- thousand dollars in credit card cut up twelve card it was it was great I was excited.
Shortly after that.
He went -- charged.
Something for 6000 dollars would likely.
We make steps ahead and me we end up making the same amount if that's what more -- not we'll let you know.
I'm sorry not -- -- LP.
Him he -- a it seemed that way we -- we took some time off from the planet I'll -- my daughter.
We -- take time off from the plan that was working.
-- I got discouraged.
It seemed like the harder I worked at it and paid stepped down he did without.
Bidding war it would go out eat and some -- Let -- like that wasn't a plan.
What -- you took time off.
From supporting his misbehavior.
But yeah I did.
So you know when is it that the -- -- -- gonna face the fact that he is on a completely different page than you.
Actually could be the problem yeah I mean.
I don't understand -- how would you guys go through financial -- adversity and he thinks it's a great idea and then 1 morning.
He just takes his brain out of his head and puts it on the table when you don't say anything about it.
I -- and funny about it but -- was it.
And he ECD did the same thing again just a few months ago IE he'd been mentioned -- -- a big ticket item and I said.
Not until the -- -- paid for which is almost paid off but he.
If you when did it anyway so severe we are again and I -- what.
You have is -- com.
For the fact that you have an opinion.
-- don't yeah I think you're right I mean I don't tell -- Let's take it -- from money -- What do you say let's just say this had to do with the children.
And he decided he was gonna do one thing that was completely.
Of what you and it talked about and had agreed to whether you wanted to go -- whether or not he was doing.
And taken this kid on our place that you thought they absolutely should know no matter what.
-- I mean this is not that this is not that we run a marriage.
I very -- so you got -- marriage counseling could your vote doesn't count.
You're actually -- right yeah.
If my -- -- she's just gonna.
-- -- says hey I wanna go to Florida with these three ladies and we're gonna go down here as a travel thing and I'm on you know now what I'm doing cocaine you're not travel among them.
And she says -- yes I -- I'm going anyway would you like it or not we've got a marriage breakdown.
We can't come to agreement on a basic situation -- safety is involved for the good of the family is involved.
My fight over what what type of gone more buying this is major.
-- He's destroying the future of your family because he will not sit and listen to anyone else's input that's not because he's not doing my deal.
If you're both were on the same page doing any deal I'm happy are happier than I am right now -- this conversation.
-- you know your vote doesn't count he has absolutely no respect for your opinion.
-- Yeah I think you're you're -- read about them but I can't do this plan I don't know him.
No more -- divorce.
Because you just become his mommy then he goes and makes -- and you clean it up.
Can grow it not only a large one that's -- how to control praying hard and you know I really need you -- let me just -- The way I view this thing is and I think it's -- dies in a lot of cases have gotten a bad name.
And I've done this to my wife take some I'm not -- better than your husband and I'm just about twenty years -- the -- in this stupid.
First seven years armored under whatever I wanted it and so we've been married 27 -- Sharon -- we're a point where you're from pitcher at.
-- thought you could.
But you know because -- I'm not saying I've got this that I've never have made the same mistakes as a guy.
But but one of the things you've got to learn as a man is to be a grown up many -- Involve serving your family.
One definition one really good definition of masculinity.
And that's not sub serve in yes darling whatever -- Sunday.
It's not subservient and can you can be a strong manly man with a strong opinion.
And still put the needs of your wife and kids ahead of your own.
And this guys act like a little -- -- -- And that's where this arrogance comes from.
And and I'm not I'm not trying to be mean to him are you mad at him or something but -- want you to take action in this in this relationship.
-- your relationships Sox it's horrible.
And you guys really need to sit down with a pastor and somebody needs to get his face and explain to him that.
You know going -- doing whatever you wanna do and acting like a little -- -- totally selfish.
-- -- -- -- -- -- It's government -- it's not very masculine.
And you know you can you can reverse and say it's not very womanly for a lady to be a little princess and everything's all about her -- -- that's not attractive either.
In a relationship.
You know learning to live a little bit for other people won't take you really long places and relationships.
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