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-- in San Francisco hi -- how -- you tonight.
I'm good -- -- better than -- deserve what's up.
Well the kindly.
Separated from her husband for two and a half years we've been married for about fourteen.
They have to Ricci is one on the way.
And he -- mean with how I have -- 540 credit score.
Car that -- -- 28000 dollars on.
I just -- and -- played not bad good.
This woman -- bill.
I'm not and I wanna -- -- the car because my -- -- -- my desires to buy a house and you know do that being.
-- -- -- it all right when he left.
He bought a car right before -- he -- seven months -- he brought it 39000 dollar car and and you got the car.
Now I have a car -- -- for two and a half years he had a military and our parliament.
-- four -- all of -- and what is your take home a month.
Take home pay a month as well I would say each after taxes about 2800.
And -- well this is not working innocent.
Yeah you know I actually had to resort to moving back and what my mom.
And you know your thoughts telling the call.
Am I wanna show it but I don't know who won a buyer for.
What I know you know what it's got your name on it and his -- moment.
They had both of our names on it push and he wanted to take it -- you cannot or can you actually look look I'm good and on disability.
And so I don't trust she -- taking it.
-- I would agree with.
Well what I would do is look up what it's -- -- Kelley blue book and our private sale who do you -- the money to on the car.
-- -- Well I begin to have some discussions with Citibank about letting you sign a note and pay payments on the difference.
That it won't bring.
So you -- 48000 let's pretend that it would sell for 24000.
And that would leave you only 4000 in the hole I would rather you have 4000 dollars in debt living with your mother than 28000.
Dollars and that living with your mother.
-- -- -- -- Actuarial why have -- has not gotten back together or divorced one of the two after two and a half years.
I don't know I don't know opportunity eagle I don't know arrived at the neighborhood -- -- I go to church every Sunday had been Cutler pastor but he doesn't want to it feel like keeping got a -- to -- -- or.
You know like a conflict of interest because I've -- the pastor of my life but.
You know he it.
It's -- two and a half year.
It did two and a half -- you're just gonna let me know what I -- Salmonella -- -- still separated.
I don't wanna be that way -- I want to move on an annual thing and do it.
How paint or get off the latter.
And that's what I've been trying to say over and over -- the 37 year old man.
I'm we are having another child to -- unsightly letting you know -- it to you.
-- -- Well yeah and -- I guess I can do it -- hypocrite you know what they aren't getting -- -- Warrick is it is really difficult now that I'm.
You know trying to save a trying to -- -- from a maternity leave.
What exactly is I guess they mention you're gonna give me if you've been separated for twenty years and then letting me about it you know I mean I actually -- -- on this program who have been separated for seven years.
I don't grasp it.
I don't either and I I had a friend at Fenway and I -- this they Larry I pray for a long -- And here I am going on that same pattern and I don't want that corner and move on you know I didn't part of my.
I'll be -- I thought about maybe you know.
Maybe he'll you know it wanna come back to the family and you know help beside -- is I'm struggling with the three we have balancing but.
Do you need a good thing that he actually moved it mommy and -- -- and they're getting along just -- over there -- and I'm raising the kids you know on a little bit of money he doesn't give me and that apple tried but just graduated preschool so you know I think.
I'm a little bit of money that he gives you his part of the key part of this discussion -- I figure that's what was going on.
I hope your marriage can come back together if -- can't he needs to be paying child support.
And that's not a little -- -- money there's three children involved this is the state of California that they will assist him in his motivation won't say.
You have to.
And that enters into the equation here what's good for your kids.
You know he's still -- bad that was -- -- divorced or the America I'm not recommending divorce -- recommending.
That limbo is not a place to be for you guys and I'm also gonna say that this car needs to go.
And need to get -- -- And sign a note the difference if you have to because you can't count on him to pay it and that -- the burden of this thing off of -- it absolutely is.
You know it's insane trying to hold 128000 -- car with the money you make in your situation.
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