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All right Beth is in Boise Idaho hi Beth and welcome to the Dave Ramsey show how -- you tonight.
Think -- -- -- great good evening thank you so much for taking my call sure what's.
I have about 500 -- with the the real estate.
And I'm -- -- getting married.
Okay -- -- -- he has gotten and yeah I wanna look at part of -- he won't get a lot yeah and I'm not and but I really worry about.
Or implication -- what my liability.
You know -- hit it could be -- he 80000 dollars in debt actually -- -- -- But it -- credit card then.
And he had about how -- 50000 dollar low on the -- -- ex girlfriend.
Been working -- who has not yet.
And that it I actually handled who has the home he hit echo and they're all Kardashian.
Why are they not doing something to disband that.
I'm letting it sit there.
There she wants to keep how they get better at four point I think 8% I don't think -- -- I know I know I've talked a lot about.
And he's willing to just sit there and let her and have this liability -- in the house.
Well and I explained to him that -- yet.
He can't -- it every month that goes by -- -- that he would quarrel has paid off.
I don't he is paying the payments.
He -- up and tell a I think it was 45 months ago half of it yeah.
The debt does not bother me if you told me he had -- -- -- dollars and that he had 80000 dollars in debt if you love him more than you love your real estate marrying him and pay off the bat.
But now this in act in this in this this -- Unwillingness to address an obvious issue.
That bothers me a lot.
That make sense.
If I -- fresh facial look at all well.
Yes it's a deal breaker for me.
Until because when we tell you if he takes that character trait and he's gonna frustrate -- your whole lot if that this wimpy and you know I don't want to conflict I want anybody else to be uncomfortable and so I'm willing to be and -- for more willing to make my new wife uncomfortable.
Right enemies who have sudden.
I I do I -- -- let me tell you if I if I suddenly slipped -- -- his skin -- -- the ex girlfriend will became very uncomfortable very quickly.
-- and that -- -- my my question is.
Is there any way that I would end up being liable for his ex girlfriend how.
But we -- -- part when they say for richer for poorer.
But hone in sickness and in health.
This is the -- part.
You're not technically -- where you're suddenly married to a guy.
Who -- you won't address a problem and be you wind up having to address and because he didn't address it.
And as a couple it's going to affect you you're not living independent lives anymore when you get married.
Now legally they're not going to be able to sue you and come after your assets.
But if you're married to a guy -- bankrupt that's a problem.
Because he wouldn't take action on something.
-- again I don't mind -- -- somebody who just filed bankruptcy.
That doesn't bother me a bit as long as they learned their lesson and we can be an agreement on how we're going to handle money going forward.
It's this disagreement in an action that is -- bothered me not the numbers are not the fact that you might be liable.
If you told me there's 250000 dollars in debt or -- -- me inaugural study and a half million dollars in debt.
And he's learned his lesson and he's willing to get on beans and rice tries to millions and we -- and we know we're gonna solve a couple pieces of morals say that we've been married six months to begin the payoff is -- I would be and I'd be in -- on that and tell you to do that in a matter that are in the name of unity in and they -- -- this for your marriage.
I'm not willing to address the ex girlfriend.
-- and and and in their.
This is a problem.
So I would delay.
The marriage until you can find that this guy is gonna be willing to step up and take action when there are problems in your -- life going forward.
Right now he's unwilling to address this for whatever reason and I'm not out.
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