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Kansas hi -- welcome -- the Dave Ramsey show.
Hi -- thank you so much for taking my call that day sure -- around.
Well I'm happy what I have a the unique situation because that would -- nobody else has put -- felt in this situation and I have been with my husband for sixteen year.
And one event at the very get let my name means land but getting that they -- all the great thing and the other -- -- -- I have I have them get adolescent and my behavior really hear -- -- and have racked up.
Huge amount of credit card debt and -- -- my name only.
And kept it working -- cleared and all my paycheck was going -- any payment.
Multiple John he had -- -- -- -- show a month ago that I get the ball actually yelling.
-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- Do you -- do you get a lot -- So what were you making.
A making 31000.
And how much credit card data be -- -- 76987.
Dollars as -- last night and all the cards are cut.
All the -- the cut -- hand them over to my husband -- morning when the season.
And he didn't know the number X Ers and I didn't want to come up the chain link.
I'm looking out with a lot and they have a lot at a thousand dollars you know they email info last night at first he actually got the number -- People who gracious loving and the support I'm sure -- resentment -- in their somewhere back.
He sees them that conviction.
And shame and he respects that he now I want to make -- right.
In the poll I can't I don't like -- can make it right forty.
He was certain OK you know can get out of stating -- if I act and he probably -- I don't want it to -- that.
I want to take that on -- What ever I need to do them.
I'm currently 6000 dollars behind in payment because I was I don't quite tricky -- are you back employ.
I am probably gonna make a -- making about 25 right now.
Expect to gamble a little ninety days -- that because some pretty.
To be you know economically I'm working overtime -- can't get any government.
Let me tell you that is what where I just I just think your -- is precious I think you have.
You've you've become extremely.
With yourself probably for the first time in a decade.
I'm quite clear and and with him.
And so you're a really cool place spiritually and emotionally you're growing more at this moment in time than.
Then you have any any long periods of time and because we don't go through these things and you know.
You have all of the components of someone who's gonna have a transformed life.
He really did I'm very very proud for him -- I'm.
I'm actually very pleased that I loved my job because that was the best place for me to -- you know and I'm grateful they got that he wasn't that the ball.
It's not gonna work they just it's all here right now well -- And I think it's very noble for you to pick this up and run with -- and I think it's healthy for you to pick this up and -- with -- but I also think it's gonna be healthy for you as a part of the healing process.
To learn the combined your.
Financial effort with that of your husband if you had cancer.
Lung cancer because you're smoked.
It be your fault but he would still love -- take care -- For both rich and people go on -- ready to -- him for -- and sickness and in health.
And so I think part of your emotional healing and and spiritual growth is going to be to accept.
His help financially.
I'm OK with you beating on this for a little while.
But I'm also I think it's going to be good for you for him to write some of these tracks.
-- and our continent that's gonna happen.
But -- -- realistically mathematically not gonna get there but I think it's going to be good for you because that that's gonna put you are not in a place where you.
Are beholding to him in some kind of a sick toxic boy in your relationship but it's good for her husbands who wants to love each other well.
I don't know that that's gonna happen today -- this week but.
In the coming months I want him to write the checks and be done with this thing if your attitude in your heart stays where it is.
And I want you to be able to accept that.
That's what I would want my marriage.
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