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That special someone you've been searching for is out there are -- keep pointing keep clicking stay online because it turns out that people who meet online.
Keep clicking we're being very long time after they -- More of them are likely to be happy and more likely to have longer lasting marriages as well.
This is relationship expert who says she's not at all surprise love.
Of age -- -- -- joining us I hope I pronounced that Mary and I apologize if I -- not.
Here today you sure dead what do you make of this cycle back.
Good what a -- thing and it actually the truth is there about 54.
Americans right now forty million of whom have tried online dating yet.
A very small percentage of those people actually end up in a long term marriage -- I don't know it statistics.
That you have those are -- Really OK it's like you know what I would answer by years to citizens because.
-- are producing here grabbed their duties for me and rob I don't find these reliable.
But marriage -- -- had I guess what they are -- succumbing to point is that those who do hook up via online.
Dating sites would have it.
Attendees stay together longer are happier longer do what he didn't.
Know that I well I here's what I think I think that casting a wider net is a great idea especially in today's age you know -- were in the technology age so.
You know everybody's doing it the problem -- is that what people are doing when -- online is looking -- Chemistry.
Looks all those kinds of things that you really can't.
Bill the long term relationship might have.
But it does have -- sift through the nonsense right in other words.
If if these people who use some of these sides are telling the truth with each other and just -- you know this is the type thing I like -- of the movies like -- of the -- -- -- -- whenever.
That you're you're you're you're you're free screening -- -- well and finding someone who you're more likely.
To stay with what's he do look up front.
Well -- -- would be ideal if that were true that the numbers would show look at that the divorce rate isn't improving as a matter of fact less people are getting married statistically.
We're not seeing it nailed it did the bottom line is.
-- and I think it's easy for -- figures still stick.
Tonight David whether online or off plot where you know half of marriages end in divorce that's right.
That's right did INS and it's always a woman's fault -- what happens.
Yeah I know that again you've got some other statistics I don't have hosted that they are exactly I know.
Now I know you did then that's okay because you know the truth is we're all trying to make it at the bottom line is that -- the finger at the common denominator in all relationships -- Whether you meet somebody online or not is you right -- so whether or not you find more people.
To have an opportunity to date with the long term.
Idea and the quality of the relationship really is a matter of have I done work on myself do I know why now do I know what I want reading a list in five minutes of -- somebody -- I mean ideally.
That would be great but it's really just doesn't turn out that way and -- -- -- -- -- -- your relationship.
Expert so so let -- get a handle on this when you.
Talked to let's take couples for example but that that ultimately do succeed and and and and either -- or the apple happy life together or both.
What is that -- agree what keeps them together what what has them -- these historical odds that say it it's.
Three things now one thing is three things respect.
And knowing who you are so you can be a witness to somebody else and I know that sounds so cliche you know who you are it's not a cliche.
So if you don't have those three ingredients.
Typically what you're going to do actually statistically what you're gonna do was hit recreate your family dynamics that's what -- -- -- were unconscious.
Right -- just gonna find somebody like your parents or whatever you think glove looks like you're gonna be a magnet for that.
Ideally you know we go through relationship after relationship when we supposedly learned lessons.
But if you're not paying attention -- we're not being conscious of what we're doing.
We just keeps spitting out the same story you've heard this right -- Sally looks just like Jane and boy -- Jersey is saying you know it's like when we end up in that same.
He already gets really bad when they start looking like their pets you must -- not.
Not our world that hey we're out pressures going up on all these sites now as they're really it's exalted -- thank you very much whenever -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
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