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“Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” author John Gray on the evolution of relationships.
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So it was twenty years ago our next guest wrote one of the best -- relationship books of all time now is reworking the advice for.
I guess the modern day couple joining us now to sell it.
-- -- and a birthday and maybe help.
-- and -- on our relationship obviously John Gray author of men are from Mars.
Women are from Venus John do you need to read write this book so -- because of social media and the way that.
Men and women interact or don't -- -- -- any longer.
I think the biggest difference over the last twenty years anywhere pretty much the same about our roles have changed and suddenly women don't have time for a lot of the traditional roles they've had at home.
And you know we get survey.
As scrubbing bubbles I worked with them on AM.
Dirty work index and we found that six out of ten women out of thousands were wanting more help.
Now in the men were wanting to give more help but what women to be specific -- asking for that support.
Accidentally -- wanna be -- exactly exactly what they did a rest to be told exactly what to do you're not gonna be able to help the -- -- -- by the way -- married thankfully not through each other so thick that you get help us a general with the idea because of the men want to be told the -- be -- -- -- that.
That's right and women often assume that he's in automatically do it but he didn't see his father doing and most of our automatic conditioning -- -- childhood this is on this stuff.
See need to be specific and you need to make a little big deal out of -- as well but it cannot rule it looks good instead argued didn't put this here and you didn't put this here practice discourages.
-- communication.
Yes Smartphones.
And the Internet and technology created.
More fissures in relationships or even new fissures that we couldn't even have a match -- -- There's a positive and negative and the positive side of it when women in the workplace and women have a much greater need to bond with other women and -- and -- make the mistake of expecting her husband to be like a girlfriend.
So they do have that opportunity go online is to be with a female tribe where they're talking all their friends -- friendship and ten terrorists it's a -- -- -- social -- website it's all -- from my yeah well it's this.
What women feel like that -- -- other women talking and -- about what they're going through a hormone cut oxy toasting gets produced and that lowers women stress levels.
Of people around the discriminate I was get you know it's like right now -- -- staring at that.
-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- So in the and also wouldn't what's that their husband to be like the girlfriend and then resent that he's not like -- her girlfriends when really what you want is a -- to be a guy and use him.
Prices that you're using differently now you know that you we don't want to help us right now because I as we don't want to really get along it would -- -- -- but we'll only know.
Can't -- all ahead.
I'm very good about I've put I didn't put the funds away I'm not as -- -- -- way.
And -- say if I'm gonna use it I'll sit there and say okay I'm gonna these funds are now.
Well the important thing for men realize of that wife is ignoring him he should make a big deal out of Angie -- who did something he life -- complain about it because she has a greater need for about -- John -- Thank you thank you appreciate it Cheryl.
